Once again its been a while since I gave you an update in the long (and for the most part boring) saga of my of my life.
Its been almost 3 months since I married a wonderful lady and moved to Texas. I wont kid you all its been tough, dealing with a new state (hey I grew up in CA and thats all I really knew) Texas is a nice place full of real nice people, this is so opposite of what I knew in CA and as liberal as I thought I was its still a shock that people are nice to you for no reason. My new wife and I are getting along but there too is a struggle, we both bring with us a lot of old baggage, we have both been alone for some time and it takes some getting use to having someone else in your life, I feel that sometimes I withdraw into myself and I know that hurts Becky but just cant help it and I am really trying to not depend on my own thoughts and ways to do things but its going to take time and I know in the end (or sooner than that) things will work out, I cant speak for Becky, but I know she has been hurt in the past and is trying to come to grips with that, along with her job (now that is one I could never do it is so stressful it makes me hurt just seeing her go through all the things she goes through) now that is a real hand full.
At times I do miss my old life back in CA but those times are getting fewer and longer apart as I really get to know Texas and Becky, now I don't think I could go back to CA I am kind of liking Texas and more importantly I kind of (no let me rephrase that I love) being with Becky, problems and all.
I am sitting here in front of a crackling fire watching the original Bat Man (the one with Michael Keaton) while my turkey is roasting in the oven, yes I know its a few days past Thanksgiving, but Becky had to pull call this holiday and with that we had to sort of move our celebration to Sunday, we are going over to her sisters house for a dinner at 1:00 pm today and I am bring my famous brined turkey, I haven't made it in a few years but its not too difficult so we shall see how it turns out.
The job hunt hasn't gone as I would have hopped but I think I have a good lead at a copier supplier, I have had 2 interviews with them and they seem interested but wont know anything until later this week (due to the holidays)
I have been riding my bike (when the weather agrees, and right now its not agreeing, cold and rainy) I figured that since it wasn't selling I would at least put it to use and ride it. I have done some work on it as well, did a lot of cleaning I have a new seat coming that should make it look a lot sharper, I took the pipes off and put a coat of semi gloss heat temp. paint, that was a chore and reminded me why I really prefer to have some one else do the work, things always come off easier than they go back on, but now that its done it looks so much better than it did before, once I get it all done I'll take some pics of it and post them.
I have heard from all my kids (my biological ones that is) except David and they are all doing well. My mom is also doing well and getting better all the time after her surgery. My sisters are doing good as well I hear from them from time to time.
Well this has gone on long enough so I will close with a Happy Holidays to all